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Monday Morning Rant

So I found this in my email inbox this morning. I was very tempted to post the link but that would probably make me look like an instigator, which is not my intention. However, I will share a quote because this is my space to write my feelings out.

“Do you think that it is necessary or perhaps more fitting for your daughter/little girl to be in a specific (actual) age range and/or in a specific range of body types?

I’ve seen so many daughters/babygirls that I just can’t take seriously..I understand that it is roleplay and we’re not looking for an actual baby, nor looking for an actual underage teen girl BUT, quite frankly, an obese babygirl/daughter is not at all credible in my eyes, neither is a 40/50 yo. playing little girl. In my opinion there must be some physical/age standards too (and mind that the range I find likable is quite wide). Am I alone in this thought? I think daughters/babygirls would be laughing in your face if you’re younger, smaller and weaker and shorter than your girl and you want her to call you daddy, it’s ridiculous.”

This is disgusting behavior to me! It is okay for one to have preferences but it is not okay to be rude and to invalidate someone because you say they cannot be a ____ because they don’t meet your ridiculous standards for what is and isn’t acceptable.

1. “I’ve seen so many daughters/babygirls that I just can’t take seriously.”

It bothers me when terms like daughter and son are used to refer to the caretaker/little dynamic because it implies that people in these dynamics have incestuous desires. Words like babygirl or babyboy are more like terms of endearment in my opinion.

2. “I understand that it is roleplay…”

For many caretakers/littles, including myself, this is not role play. It is a part of who we are.

3. “…an obese babygirl/daughter is not at all credible in my eyes, neither is a 40/50 yo. playing little girl.”

Why not? Babygirls/babyboys and littles come in all ages and sizes and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Apparently someone is paying too much attention to outside appearances, rather than what really matters, the heart. I expect nothing less from someone so shallow. By the way, this guy is 25. Some people around my age have a lot of growing up to do. But then, ignorance and immaturity come in all ages.

4. “I think daughters/babygirls would be laughing in your face if you’re younger, smaller and weaker and shorter than your girl and you want her to call you daddy, it’s ridiculous.”

No, people who know better will be laughing in your face when they see how ridiculous you are. Oh and, keep insulting people if you want them to take you seriously. That’s the way to build meaningful friendships and long-lasting relationships. Note the sarcasm.

Okay, I am finished ranting.

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Trying to Make New Friends

Today I am feeling discouraged and sad. Recently I have attempted to join some groups for littles in my area. Wait, let me back up a bit.

I have a visual impairment. It doesn’t necessarily hinder me from doing most things in life; however, it does mean that I must do most things different than sighted people. Sometimes people are accepting of this but most people act funny around visually impaired people. This I will never understand. Perhaps I will elaborate on that sometime in the near future but for now, to be continued…

Soon after realizing that I was a sub, I discovered the existence of the little and age play communities. People in the D/s community have been accepting of my visual impairment for the most part, so I thought for sure I would be accepted into the local littles community. I’m starting to feel like that isn’t the case. Once I was told that if you had a disability, it was a good practice to let whomever is in charge of the event know, especially if you think you might need help at the event. So I tried to do that. Things seem fine until I bring up my visual impairment. That’s when communication between me and the person or people in charge comes to a complete stop. They stop responding to my messages before I even get a chance to attend one event. I don’t understand. At this point I am very discouraged. I’m just trying to get out there, attend some events, and make new little friends. I have made some little friends online but we live states, some even countries apart from each other. This is why I thought it would be nice to have some little friends in So Cal. So far this has been my unpleasant experience.

It’s times like these when it really sucks to be in an LDR. Maybe things would go much smoother if I had my Daddy here with me.

Meds and Tissues and Cuddles, Oh My!

First, an update. Communication with my Dom has gotten better since my last post here. I don’t feel so alone anymore. It’s good because I really feel deeply for him and I didn’t want us to grow apart like I had feared.
Now, the reason for the title. After spending so much time caring for his mom and recently his sister who had just been released from the hospital not too long ago, Daddy A is now sick himself. I don’t like it when he is sick, it makes me sad. He’s got the sniffles, an upset tummy, and is hacking his brains out. I guess it’s my turn to be the caregiver. I don’t mind, I like caring for him in anyway that I can, especially when he is sick. Of course he still wants to be Daddy, AKA the boss, but I know that like most men, he is just a big cute baby when under the weather. SHHH, don’t tell him that. 🙂